Writer behind Nandyz Soulshine (www.nandyzsoulshine.com), a collection of inspirational and relatable ideas to uncomplicate life one step at a time.
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“If you’re not prepared to be wrong, you’ll never come up with anything original.”
— Ken Robinson

Do successful people have super powers? The answer is, yes, they do — it’s called the right attitude. How anyone reacts to the challenges cropping up in life decides how the curve of life fulfilment looks for them.


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“You have power over your mind ―not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.”

— Marcus Aurelius

Imagine how it would feel to face something you always dreaded and still be confident you are going to come out of it just fine.


never stop learning
never stop learning
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“ What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals.”

- Zig Ziglar

Meaningful success looks different for all of us. But, no matter what it looks like for you, the one key thing that ensures you achieve success is consistent aligned action.


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“The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them.”

-Ralph G. Nichols

What makes a good listener feature in most people’s list of ideal partner qualities? That’s because a good listener makes you feel understood, valued, & respected — basically, validated. And active listening skills give you the tools to make the other person feel just that.


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“Remember, you have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.”

— Louise L. Hay

Everyone knows, every person we meet won’t be gracious or kind.

  • why do we get hurt when someone is rude or mean as that’s always a possibility?
  • why do we beat ourselves up with someone’s action or reaction that we take to be personal?
  • Why do we take their interpretation of us to heart, encouraging low self-esteem?

It’s either that the situation is complicated or because we are too sensitive and dislike any kind…


two hands making yin and yang with fire and water
two hands making yin and yang with fire and water
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“The only real failure in life is not to be true to the best one knows.” — Buddha

Have you ever said to yourself, “I know I can absolutely do that, only if…”?

  1. too generalized…

Being overburdened from not knowing how to say No
Being overburdened from not knowing how to say No
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“When you say yes to others, make sure you are not saying no to yourself.” — Paulo Coelho

The clarity & confidence to choose what you feel is right has the power to change positively the way you experience life. When you know how to balance what you want to do and what you have to do effortlessly, life becomes so much more enjoyable and uncomplicated. That’s why learning to say no effectively is important.

  1. Why learning to say no is an important life skill.
  2. Understanding why it’s difficult to say No.
  3. Saying no without…

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